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This Week's Question and Response:Guy wants space- is this ok?
Dear Mama,
My boyfriend of nine months just told me he needs a few nights to himself and he promises that he doesn't want to loose me. He just needs time. We were spending every night together. Is that right and if so how much time is adequate?
Signed,
Sara
Dear Sara,
How come his request makes you nervous, darling?
When this new Italian restaurant opened around the corner, about 6 months ago, I liked it so much, I asked my boyfriend to take me there every week. Then, one day, I wanted to check out a new place. Not that I didn’t love my local favorite, but just to see what else was happening in the neighborhood. Now, we check out other places, but eventually, we always come back to our favorite. In fact, we love our place even more because of how much better it is than almost everywhere we go.
When you are as gorgeous and fabulous as you are, you know he is not going to be having more fun anywhere else than by your side. You are so confident that you can actually give him a little push out the door, maybe even encourage him to take two nights off instead of one so you can hang with your pals and check out what’s new in your neighborhood. When you give someone a little push in the direction they are going, they come back twice as fast. Not only that, but you might enjoy a little diversity. And you will appreciate each other so much more when you see each other again.
It is up to each of us, as women, to recognize and live our splendor.
Use your free nights to become even more fabulous, and you will make your relationship even better than it is!
Yours in pleasure,
Mama
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