This Valentine’s day I’m thinking a lot about sisterhood.   And the tender, irreplaceable, fierce love that’s possible and necessary between women.   I fly close with my flock. That’s how we do.   Partners and lovers come and go. But sisters weather the storms.   We will stay up all night for each other,...

Sometimes it is just so easy to get what you want.   And sometimes it is just so deeply frustrating to be stuck – sometimes for years – in a cycle of knowing what you want, creeping so achingly close to the doorway, and seemingly, getting shut down, over and over again.   We all...

As you all know, my secret sauce is Pussy/Turn-on/Pleasure. Connecting to my radiance is a core value – and not an easy road to take in this patriarchal world culture that consistently shuts down the feminine. So one of the things that I value the most, cherish the most, and delight in the most –...

You did it,.    You rounded the corner on 2021. It was a year, wasn’t it?    And I must say – despite the deep wide challenges, despite being in a major life transition  (again!) – it was hands down, my favorite year of all the years I have been privileged to live.   I...

This time of year is so dense with emotion.   If you love the deep, dark, rich range of human emotions – like I do – you are feasting right now.   If the deep, dark, rich range of human emotions terrify you – like they do me – you may feel somewhat tentative, somewhat...

I love combining work and pleasure, [First Name].    This week I had a client who wanted me to meet for an intensive in St Barth. Having never been there, I was delighted to say yes. I brought a small team of incredible facilitators with me, delivered an above-and-beyond, outrageously delicious, one-on-one workshop for my...

I am giving thanks for you.   It has been quite a year.    And you, my love, have held it together – heart open, turned on, tuned in, feeling it all.   Every drop. Every bone in place.   You have held the fire, the rage, the wild rush of life winding you up...

Dear Friends,   For the past few years, I have had the gift of an amazing man in my life. Peter and I met each other five years ago, and have been partners ever since.   We love each other so deeply, but we are aware that we have grown apart and are choosing to...

Video Link: https://vimeo.com/639139935   Picture this…   You are at the birthday party.  The cake is baked.  The candles are lit.  The moment has finally arrived!     This is the one and only time per year that each of us gets to make a wish. And we blow it. (And no, I don’t mean the...

Reading headlines makes me feel things Grief.   Rage.   Despair.   Like you, I am struggling to navigate this climate changing, off again/on again pandemic existence.   Who else feels they are on unpredictable, ever shifting sands?   The pandemic’s impact on women, especially, has been huge.   We are heading towards year two...