How sensual are you feeling right now?

July 16, 2024

Let me give you a hint… If you are feeling repulsed by the question above – and a majority of women reading this will be repulsed or made uncomfortable – then, you are somewhat (or totally) cut off from your sexy. Which is interesting. Because, as women, we have so many magnificent parts to ourselves. […]

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It’s time to get sistered

July 2, 2024

Sistering. It’s a verb that most of us have not considered very much. And yet all of us have been both negatively and positively impacted by the relationships we have with other women. How well have you sistered, or been sistered in this lifetime? Do you have a deep fear of other women? Or do […]

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I had no idea I was terrified

June 25, 2024

I just thought I was shut down. Turned off. Asexual. I couldn’t figure out why I received attention when I wasn’t interested. Or how to get attention when I most longed for it. I was clueless in the realm of relationships. Celibate for a decade. And full of inherited shame. But here’s the thing – […]

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Show me your beauty

June 18, 2024

I am shy. Innately. I like running just under the radar. And then, on the other hand…I am an outrageous minx, a wild ball of fire, guzzling attention like it was Hi-test for my engine. (Hmmm…which is my truth? Which is my cultural conditioning?) Tell me about you. In your opinion, where do you fall […]

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I know what you need

June 11, 2024

There is something every one of us needs. It may not be something we know we need. But once we have it, we will never ever want to be without it. Especially now. We all need a safe space to fall apart. To be held. To find our way back to ourselves.   See, we […]

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What to do if you have no friends

May 7, 2024

Yesterday a new friend came over for dinner. This was a total triumph. Why? Because making friends – even as a grown ass woman – is f*cking hard. At least, for me. I feel as awkward now, as I did when I was 12 years old and starting fresh at a new school. Like many […]

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Are you irritating enough to make millions?

March 26, 2024

Do you trust yourself? Or do you put your trust in the patriarchal world culture and follow the pathways that have been carved from that bedrock? Growing up, I was in a perpetual state of not quite fitting in, not quite trusting the world around me. Deep down, I felt that there had to be […]

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My 3-part burnout cure How to cure burnout in 3 easy steps

March 19, 2024

Are you hitting a wall? What does it mean to be a success? In your own eyes? And how do you know when enough is enough? One day last spring, I had been running on empty for so long that I up and left my laptop in a taxi. (Fortunately, it was returned by the […]

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Is life an adventure? Or a tragedy?

March 5, 2024

I ask myself this question a lot. Escalating violence, sweeping intolerance, anti-LGBTQ attitudes, incidents of racism, sexism, transphobia, xenophobia, and all-out genocide in this country and the world have hit me, and many of us, like daggers of grief and rage to the heart. Add to that my own personal challenges of caring for an […]

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Make 2024 the year of your pleasure

February 27, 2024

What is your pace? Your rhythm? Your flow? Do you zip through the day – spinning way too many plates, and getting off on how many you can keep in the air? I know I do that. We all get so many points for being busy. Or acting busy. As if our inherent value hinges […]

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