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You were born to feast.

February 13, 2018

Good boys. Bad boys. Who’s sexier? Who turns you on the most? Whether you’re attracted to men or women, both, or neither, let’s tell some truth. I don’t know about you, but for much of my life, I have been a crash course missile, heading straight for a “bad boy.” So many of my girlfriends, […]

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Feeling depleted? I have the antidote. (So do you.)

January 30, 2018

I have a question for you. Today is happening. Train has left station. So – What have you done so far today that makes you feel lit up? Happy? Beautiful? Sexy? ALIVE? What have you done to please yourself today? I want to know. So many women I ask this question can’t answer. Maybe you […]

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My anger is fuel. And so is yours.

January 23, 2018

Come, let’s talk.  Who is with me on the pissed?  For me these days, it’s the misogyny, racism, and plain vanilla closed-mindedness that makes me want to explode. There are so many good reasons to be mad. What are you angry about, sisters? Self-serving leaders? The oceans filling with plastic? The cost of prescription drugs? So-called “women’s […]

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Your calling isn’t yours.

January 16, 2018

I admit, I am late to some games, early to others. I guess we all are. But there is a thing I trust with my body, heart, and soul. In fact, I have staked my life on this premise (and have never been misdirected). That the power of my desire, the power of my pussy […]

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Sexy is confidence

January 9, 2018

Ready for a quick temperature read? I want to know – How’s your sexy doin’ these days? Is she checked in? Or checked out? As I was paging through my notes in preparation for The Womanly Arts Experience (our introductory weekend course, which is coming up in just two weeks, and is almost full!) I […]

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It’s 2018. Now what? #aftermetoo

January 2, 2018

It’s a New Year! You got through 2017!!!!!!!!!!!! Yeah you did.  If you are anything like me, you are breathless from the last 12 months. Maybe a little sweaty. Fevered? Shaky? Anxious-excited? It was the kind of year that could break a person, if she weren’t careful. It was the kind of year that could […]

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The world is overwhelming but we will not be overwhelmed.

December 12, 2017

Reading headlines makes me feel things.  Grief. Rage. Despair. Genocide is happening in our lifetime. Parents are watching their children die of starvation. Sexual predators win political office. Elephants are being hunted to extinction for ivory. Boys are being shot dead because of their color. Girls are being abducted and trafficked.  I don’t have to […]

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This is urgent – our world is changing rapidly.

November 28, 2017

Since my New York Times bestselling book, Pussy: A Reclamation, came out last September, the world has been changing rapidly. The week after the book was published, Trump was caught on tape with Billy Bush of Access Hollywood, with his “grab her by the p—y” statement.   Instantly, Pussy went from obscurity, to the front pages […]

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One thing I’m sure of.

November 21, 2017

So, last year, I was invited to a big fun happy Thanksgiving dinner, with family and friends. This year I am going over to make dinner for my mom, with a friend. There will be just 3 of us. Tiny and trueblue.   Thanksgiving. In my lifetime, I have had Thanksgivings alone. Thanksgivings that seemed […]

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The truth about mean girls

November 14, 2017

In the final part of this series, today we’re going to dive into what I consider the layer that makes everything else work. How we stay sane despite all the curveballs life throws your way.   Sisterhood. The truth is that women need women.  My day doesn’t start until I connect on the phone with […]

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