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Pleasure Revolutionary

Sitting on untapped potential?

February 23, 2016

  A few weeks ago, an incredibly brave woman stood up at my intro class and broke open the room with her vulnerability. She stood there, voice trembling into the microphone. “When I went to the gynecologist, she said my vagina had atrophied. What?!” Bam. Ouch. WTF. Atrophy. Atrophied. We all took a collective deep […]

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Ever feel like a resentful brat?

February 9, 2016

  Here’s the truth: I was an absolute brat to my kid yesterday. It was not my shiniest moment. My kid’s in the middle of midterms. And I criticized her on her way to her math exam. And then, she criticized me for criticizing her. Ba-bam. Later that day, I found myself being bratty with […]

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Finding freedom inside obligation.

July 2, 2015

Darlings- Right about now, I get to thinking. It’s about to be the 4th of July here in the States. The holiday where we celebrate our freedom. And I am just about to chain myself to my desk for the next 8 weeks and bang out the final draft of my new book. I want […]

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Ten thousand flavors of tears

May 12, 2015

I am writing from a small café on the Champs-Elyseés, soaking in the final moments of my time in Paris (pics below!). After four days together in this breathtaking city, we just completed the graduation session for the Creation Course, and I’m overflowing. Overflowing with pride, with joy, and with volumes of gratitude. These women […]

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6 Mistakes That Keep You in Indecision

March 17, 2015

It is so easy to make the same choice over and over and over again. Making a bold decision, and stepping into something new is almost impossibly difficult. Usually we have to be chased by something achingly painful – like a viciously unhappy relationship. Or deep physical discomfort. Or a job we hate that does […]

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The “I give up” moment.

March 3, 2015

A really really really really good friend of mine, Ayo, got engaged last month. For the very first time. At age 68. This was not a likely thing to have ever happened in this world. She came from a single mama who raised her alone. And she had been a single mama, raising her daughter […]

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Inside, I knew something was missing.

February 17, 2015

Sister Goddess Patty, Age 54 I was born in a car in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, on my way to the hospital. In those days (1960), since my mother gave birth before arriving at the hospital, I was considered “contaminated” and had to stay in the room with her instead of the nursery. She had often told […]

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Have you hit your moment yet?

January 13, 2015

So, last Sunday I finally finished the first draft of the second chapter of my new book. I was right on deadline, even a few days early. (Quick brag: This book has been writing itself. I am so happy writing it, and it is so much fun­ I feel like Jimi Hendrix, Santana, Springsteen­­, at […]

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Miami magic.

November 18, 2014

Do you know that feeling when every drop of you is spent, washed, wiped and savored — like the last bit of gravy soaked into a crust of the bread at the end of the most extraordinary meal — ever? My team and I are awash in all the brilliance, beauty, sisterhood, magic, depth, breadth, […]

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Desire is a verb – go on and wallow, darling.

November 11, 2014

There’s one thing I teach women from all over the planet that is probably the biggest game changer of all: TRUST. YOUR. DESIRES. Let me say that one again. t r u s t   .   y o u r   .   d e s i r e s   . That impulse, that vision, […]

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