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Rupture

Being a warrior woman is overrated

January 9, 2024

So, there I am In a twin bed, in a dark hotel room. Peter is entwined in my arms, pinning me to the bed and we are wildly (and silently) making out with each other, like we are two love-sick teens back in high school. It’s late at night in London, and we are here […]

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I am here for the virgin, here for the whore. Why are you here?

December 26, 2023

Do you know why you’re here? For oh so many years, I had no idea. Without orgasm, without my erotic nature – I was a wilted flower, a saltless saltine, the crankiest b*tch in the bitchery. Sensuality is the fuel that empowered my legend to live.   But most women fear the erotic so profoundly […]

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How to feed your holy

December 19, 2023

The times we are living in are absolutely unprecedented. I don’t have to tell you. The proof is all around us. Racial injustice, capitalist greed, warring nations, declining leadership, senseless death. The list of tragedies goes on. Again and again, we ask ourselves the same questions: Who am I? What am I doing? Where is […]

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My wish for you in the new year

November 28, 2023

I want to check in with you, [First Name], with all of us. It’s the week after Thanksgiving – how’s your energy? Your attitude? Your sense of wellbeing? Are you bouncing through the days, boundless and joyful? Or are you just slogging along…checking everything off, but feeling depleted and running on fumes? (Maybe more than […]

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A tale of two engagements

November 21, 2023

He had a formidable task. He had to propose to me…again. The first time had been perfect – romance, roses, and champagne hidden behind our special boulder on the beach, where we watch the sunset every night. That engagement, three years ago, led us to breaking up, blowing up, humbling ourselves, and then, ultimately, inevitably, […]

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How to glow in the dark

November 14, 2023

This time of year is so dense with feeling. If you love the deep, dark, rich range of human emotions – like I do – you are feasting right now. If the deep, dark, rich range of human emotions terrifies you – like they do me – you may feel somewhat tentative, somewhat overwhelmed, somewhat […]

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5 signs you’re ready for change

November 7, 2023

Do you know what it feels like to be at the precipice of a huge sea change in your life? Ever been there? Are you there right now? If so, then you know, it ain’t always pretty. It’s vulnerable. It’s open. It’s scary. It’s messy. It’s so hard to believe in a reality that you […]

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Feel it all with me on Friday

October 17, 2023

Today I feel lost. Bereft. My heart is flooded with a sea of grief so wide I am swallowed. An ocean of relentless despair pounds my body and my soul. So many lives – beautiful, sweet, tender, holy human lives – have been lost in the past two weeks, and so many more to come. […]

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Raise your hand if you’re stuck as f*ck

October 10, 2023

Are you living a life that feels like yours? All yours? Is it an expression of what you value? Of what you love? Of who you are? If the answer is no…that’s probably because you’ve been too busy surviving, and serving, and being responsible, to pay any mind to what you want, and who you […]

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The whisper that could change your life

August 15, 2023

Sometimes, desires whisper in your ear. Sometimes, they shout. Often, the most potent, powerful, paradigm-shifting desires are the quietest. And most of us are programmed by our culture to ignore them. We tend to see what we know, versus what wants to know us. I had this tiny little tug of an idea that I […]

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