Rupture

The Girl With the Pussy Tattoo On Her Arm

August 31, 2026

Sister, Years ago, a young woman I had never met wrote to tell me she had just gotten a pussy tattooed on the inside of her forearm. And I thought — who is this gorgeous, glorious, outrageously spectacular creature who got the download of her own majesty and power so completely, from a book, that […]

The first time I read the book out loud, I wept through the whole thing

August 17, 2026

Four weeks ago, I read from On Our Knees out loud for the first time.  Not from a stage. Not to a crowd who bought a ticket to be there. I read it to my Knee Squad — the volunteer team of women who are helping me bring this book into the world. A hundred faces […]

I wrote a whole book about coming out of hiding. Then I turned it in and hid.

August 10, 2026

Darling Sister, I typed the last word of On Our Knees, sent the whole manuscript to my editor, and did not celebrate.  No champagne. No dancing around the kitchen.  Instead I got what Brené Brown calls a vulnerability hangover — the sick, shaky comedown that hits after you hand strangers the most naked parts of […]

Confession: I am in the middle of a sprint, and pleasure is how I am winning it

June 23, 2026

Let me confess something to you, my love. Right now, as I write this, I am in the middle of a motherfucking sprint. Massive things are happening in my world, bigger than I can fully tell you yet. (One of the biggest lands on June 24, and you will be the very first to know. […]

Turn yourself on, on purpose (pleasure is not a reward you earn)

June 15, 2026

Sisters, Years ago, I was handed an assignment that sounded slightly absurd and more than slightly terrifying: prepare my home as if the most important person in the world were coming to visit.  Clean it. Fill it with beauty. Choose the food, the candles, the music. And then realize that the guest was me. That […]

This is for the women with desires for money AND a life

June 8, 2026

Sister, There was a year I came home from a book launch tour absolutely on fire with my own destiny. And then the IRS put a lien on everything I owned. I remember sitting on the floor of my apartment, back against the couch, staring at the letter. This was the life I had built. […]

In defense of difficult women

December 16, 2025

I have never been an easy woman to manage. Even as a girl, I had the scent of disobedience on me. The kind that makes teachers tense, nuns nervous, and parents sigh heavily across the dinner table. I didn’t know what to call it when I was younger. I just knew that certain expectations scraped […]

The erotic intelligence of giving your all

December 9, 2025

Every woman I know is starving for a life she can devour. Not nibble. Not sample. Devour. We’re drowning in advice that tells us to “pace ourselves” and “protect our energy,” as if we were delicate machinery instead of divine thunder in a soft body. But here’s the truth the world keeps trying to sand […]

December doesn’t get to decide who you are

December 2, 2025

The week after Thanksgiving always feels like a slow slide into holiday hysteria. Before you’ve even swallowed that last bite of pie, the world is whipping you toward Christmas and New Years, demanding a smile, a casserole, a slice of manufactured cheer. And all the while? Millions of women are quietly running themselves ragged. So […]

A ferocious kind of thanks

November 25, 2025

This time of year always gets to me. Not because of the holiday itself, or the recipes, or the travel, or the forced cheer. No, Thanksgiving hits me because it demands something that most of us spend our days avoiding… Presence. The kind that drags you closer to the bone of your own life. At […]

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