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Rupture

Did you f#ck it up?

July 11, 2023

Sometimes hard things are just…hard. It’s not that you didn’t do the right thing. Or that you didn’t do enough. Or that you weren’t up for it. Or that you missed the boat. Or gave too little. Or too much. You didn’t blow it, or bungle it, or mess it up. More often than not, […]

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3 things to do when you feel overwhelmed, depleted, stressed, or just plain full-moony

April 10, 2018

I’ve been doing some celebrating this week.  It’s not all I’ve been doing but it’s what I want to tell you about first. It’s nice to warm things up with a hot brag. My beloved bestseller, Pussy: A Reclamation, came out in paperback and it’s gorgeous!  And on the very first day, you made it one […]

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What in your life is calling for change?

March 6, 2018

I feel like if I put my ear to the ground right now, I would hear a rumbling. Whirring. Crackling. Dull thudding. Microscopic bursting. Spring does not start on the surface. It starts way below, in roots and bulbs and systems of interconnection, architected by the Divine, to awaken, renew, reconsecrate. It does not matter […]

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You were born to feast.

February 13, 2018

Good boys. Bad boys. Who’s sexier? Who turns you on the most? Whether you’re attracted to men or women, both, or neither, let’s tell some truth. I don’t know about you, but for much of my life, I have been a crash course missile, heading straight for a “bad boy.” So many of my girlfriends, […]

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My anger is fuel. And so is yours.

January 23, 2018

Come, let’s talk.  Who is with me on the pissed?  For me these days, it’s the misogyny, racism, and plain vanilla closed-mindedness that makes me want to explode. There are so many good reasons to be mad. What are you angry about, sisters? Self-serving leaders? The oceans filling with plastic? The cost of prescription drugs? So-called “women’s […]

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It’s 2018. Now what? #aftermetoo

January 2, 2018

It’s a New Year! You got through 2017!!!!!!!!!!!! Yeah you did.  If you are anything like me, you are breathless from the last 12 months. Maybe a little sweaty. Fevered? Shaky? Anxious-excited? It was the kind of year that could break a person, if she weren’t careful. It was the kind of year that could […]

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How to get out of your head – and why.

October 31, 2017

I’m back with Part 2 of my 4-part series on how to live an extraordinary life as a woman. Last week, we cracked open the topic of emotions. Today, I want to go farther. Because awareness and insight will only get you so far.  Feelings and emotions are not – and cannot be – a […]

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The 4 Keys to an Extraordinary Life

October 24, 2017

Oh, I am so deeply filled, thrilled and inspired. I just got back from an incredible week-long retreat with my advanced students in the Creation Course. It was so moving for me to take a wholehearted dive with this extraordinary group of women. It’s what I live for. Truly.   On the heels of all […]

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Trying to be hero? Uh-uh.

April 26, 2017

How do we know that we’re successful in the world? One of the aspects of a patriarchal culture, like the one we live in, is that we’ve all been taught a definition of what success is. We’ve been trained to go for certain markers that demonstrate success – external events, or circumstances that our culture […]

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This is not a time to run away

November 29, 2016

My first response was “I can’t.” It was November 9th, the results of our election were incredibly fresh, and just three days later, I was to lead the Fall session of The Womanly Arts Experience, with 900 women. I felt wallopped. And I thought to myself, “I cannot do this.” I cannot stand powerfully in front […]

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