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Self-approval

The Antidote to Fear

March 17, 2020

I was taking the elevator ride up to studio 6B at 30 Rock. Terrified. It was going to be my very first time on national television (The Conan O’Brien Show). I was petrified, I was excited, I was somehow built for this. I knew, deep in my soul, that the only way to guarantee my […]

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Unseen. Unnoticed. Ignored.

March 10, 2020

Want to play a game with me? It’s not an easy game. It has two parts. You are not going to like it at first. But then, you will find freedom beyond your wildest dreams. You in? See, I know a thing or two about women. Our sense of our own beauty is wobbly AF. […]

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Is orgasm on your to-do list?

March 3, 2020

Right now, I am in a huge period of reinvention. Perhaps you are too. Actually, I think there is a way that women are always in the process of creating, shedding, and then remaking our lives. And there is a powerful secret that I want to share with you about how I get it all […]

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Castrating Bitch

February 25, 2020

I have to admit. While I am loving, and sexy, and brilliant, and funny…sometimes, I can be a castrating bitch* to the man I love. (*Castrating bitch: a woman who can become relentlessly and subversively mean/nasty to her partner, disapproving of him (or her) for not ever getting it ‘right’. Meanwhile, said partner is clueless […]

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Turn-on and Erotic Aliveness

February 18, 2020

We all know women who are turned on. And we all know women who are turned off. How can we tell? Well, when you look at her, you feel her. You can sense her innate aliveness. Or not… Which woman are you? There is a sense of engagement, when a woman is turned on. And […]

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The girl you were, the woman you are

February 4, 2020

What would the girl you were, think of the woman you have become? Let’s take a moment and survey together. It is so important to spend time reclaiming the turf we have carved, in this life. Because sisters, we have carved. And most of us are so accustomed to galloping ahead to the next moment […]

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Do you granny-out? Or stay in the game?

January 21, 2020

Every day is a challenge. Not just for me, but for every woman. How do we stay plugged into our source energy? How do we connect with our power in a world that seems designed to disempower us? How do we choose ourselves, and our magnificence, over and over again? Especially if we, perhaps, have […]

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Being lost as an art form

January 7, 2020

Happy, healthy, sexy New Year, my love! I am blowing you kisses from the deep, dark mulch. You know mulch. It’s a heap of decaying leaves or compost. Basically, it’s rotting leaves, rotting garbage. This is why I like it: there is very little responsibility there. You just lie down and let nature take you […]

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Get Sistered

December 24, 2019

Sistering. It’s a verb that most of us have not considered very much. And yet all of us have been both negatively and positively impacted by the relationships we have with other women. How well have you sistered? Or been sistered? Do you have a deep fear of other women? Or do you long for […]

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Show your beauty to me

December 10, 2019

I am shy. Innately. I like running just under the radar. And then, on the other hand…I am on outrageous minx, a wild ball of fire, guzzling attention like it was Hi-test for my engine. (Hmmm…which is my truth, which is my cultural conditioning?) Tell me about you. In your opinion, where do you fall […]

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