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Sex + Sensuality

Are you irritating enough to make millions?

March 26, 2024

Do you trust yourself? Or do you put your trust in the patriarchal world culture and follow the pathways that have been carved from that bedrock? Growing up, I was in a perpetual state of not quite fitting in, not quite trusting the world around me. Deep down, I felt that there had to be […]

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Being a warrior woman is overrated

January 9, 2024

So, there I am In a twin bed, in a dark hotel room. Peter is entwined in my arms, pinning me to the bed and we are wildly (and silently) making out with each other, like we are two love-sick teens back in high school. It’s late at night in London, and we are here […]

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I am here for the virgin, here for the whore. Why are you here?

December 26, 2023

Do you know why you’re here? For oh so many years, I had no idea. Without orgasm, without my erotic nature – I was a wilted flower, a saltless saltine, the crankiest b*tch in the bitchery. Sensuality is the fuel that empowered my legend to live.   But most women fear the erotic so profoundly […]

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How to feed your holy

December 19, 2023

The times we are living in are absolutely unprecedented. I don’t have to tell you. The proof is all around us. Racial injustice, capitalist greed, warring nations, declining leadership, senseless death. The list of tragedies goes on. Again and again, we ask ourselves the same questions: Who am I? What am I doing? Where is […]

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These are a few of my favorite things

December 5, 2023

In this precious, sacred, wildly unstable world that we share, the holidays are a time to take a moment, take a breath, and bring pleasure back to the forefront. To find, create, and give pleasure in all its forms. I get overwhelmed by gift giving, and I often handle all the gifts that are mine […]

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How to carve out your own pleasure path

September 5, 2023

When I first met Layla Martin in 2013, she was a student in my Mastery program. Even then, her light was so bright it was dazzling. You know this – when a woman’s p*ssy is lit – you can spot her radiance from miles away. She was dripping with courage, grace, enthusiasm, turn-on, vulnerability, and […]

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I met my fiance because Hillary lost

November 3, 2020

Here was the sitch: It was the day before I was supposed to be leading a live weekend seminar for 2,000 women at the Javits Center in New York City. And Hillary Clinton had just lost the 2016 election. My staff and I were inconsolable. How were we going to deliver this event – and […]

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Unseen. Unnoticed. Ignored.

March 10, 2020

Want to play a game with me? It’s not an easy game. It has two parts. You are not going to like it at first. But then, you will find freedom beyond your wildest dreams. You in? See, I know a thing or two about women. Our sense of our own beauty is wobbly AF. […]

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Is orgasm on your to-do list?

March 3, 2020

Right now, I am in a huge period of reinvention. Perhaps you are too. Actually, I think there is a way that women are always in the process of creating, shedding, and then remaking our lives. And there is a powerful secret that I want to share with you about how I get it all […]

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Turn-on and Erotic Aliveness

February 18, 2020

We all know women who are turned on. And we all know women who are turned off. How can we tell? Well, when you look at her, you feel her. You can sense her innate aliveness. Or not… Which woman are you? There is a sense of engagement, when a woman is turned on. And […]

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