Got a case of the single, double, triple D’s?

What stops you, when you stop?
It happens to every single one of us.
We have a desire, a longing, a dream.
Something or someone we want with every fiber of our being.
nd whether we’re in hot pursuit, or merely day-dreaming…we hit roadblocks.
We get stopped along the way. It just happens.

Sometimes we can skip, leap, hop, right over those roadblocks that life hands us. Boom, done.  

And sometimes – maybe more often than not – an inner roadblock can stop us dead in our tracks.

This blog is for those of us who get stopped. Stuck. Sidelined. 

Those who are at a standstill.  

For ten years of my life, I was in a permanent state of stop.

At first, there was just doubt. I came to New York to be an actress, but I was so filled with doubt about who I was as a woman that I could barely audition. 

Questions surfaced daily – was I good enough? Pretty enough? Talented enough? Worthy enough?  

That doubt grew, as I began to disapprove of it.
I disapproved of the fact that I had doubt.
And as I disapproved of my inaction and lack of progress, I became depressed.
And for those of us that know depression, when untreated, it leads to devastation. 

Where we can’t move, can’t feel, one day blends into the next and we’re stuck in a formaldehyde of our own creation, which only shuts us down further.

So, as you can see, the D’s tend to accumulate.  

We may start with one, but then they snowball into a giant iceberg that sinks us and capsizes our dreams and desires.  

When people ask me why I started this work, they have no idea that my starting point was not a stroke of brilliance, but rather, a paralyzing case of doubt, depression, and devastation.

But what saved me was a different D altogether…it was my Desire.
And what allowed me to connect with my desire? Pleasure, and lots of it.  

I had an awakening, which I want to offer to you.

Discovering the power of pleasure changed everything for me.  

I went from utterly stuck to wildly free, wildly creative, and wildly successful.
I lost 10 years of my life to the three D’s.
I don’t want that for you, or for any woman.

If you have tried therapy, tried mindfulness, furthered your education, taken business development courses, personal development courses, but still feel stuck or stopped, then you know there is something more.  

And of course, ‘more’ is often in a direction that we have not been taught to look. And might seem overwhelming or intimidating.

Pleasure is that new direction. And that’s what you will find in my Virtual Pleasure Bootcamp course, starting on March 8th.

And yes, at first it may seem scary. I know it did for me.  

Which is why I have designed Bootcamp to be manageable, foundational, and of course, pleasurable. The course is divided into eight bite-sized weeks of curriculum that will change everything.

Filling yourself up with pleasure is the most transformative step you can take to melt away anything and everything that stops you. 

So why not make Virtual Pleasure Bootcamp that first step out of stuckness? 

And while you’re at it, why not take advantage of Early Bird pricing?

You have 48 hours to claim your seat at $200 off the regular rate. 

>>The pleasure kicks off on March 8th. Reserve your discounted seat in VPBC today!<<

Let’s unstop ourselves, and unleash our greatest power. 

With so much love and pleasure,

P.S. If you know a woman who could use a boost, use some connection to her feminine, please share this blog with her, or have her join our mailing list (scroll down the page till you see a heading that says “Put Yourself On the List”). There’s lots of fun happening on our Instagram and Facebook accounts, too!!

Regena is a feminist icon, a teacher, a speaker, a mother, a best-selling author, and creatrix and CEO of The School of Womanly Arts.


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