Let me give you a hint… If you are feeling repulsed by the question above – and a majority of women reading this will be repulsed or made uncomfortable – then, you are somewhat (or totally) cut off from your sexy. Which is interesting. Because, as women, we have so many magnificent parts to ourselves. …
What is your pace? Your rhythm? Your flow? Do you zip through the day – spinning way too many plates, and getting off on how many you can keep in the air? I know I do that. We all get so many points for being busy. Or acting busy. As if our inherent value hinges …
So, there I am In a twin bed, in a dark hotel room. Peter is entwined in my arms, pinning me to the bed and we are wildly (and silently) making out with each other, like we are two love-sick teens back in high school. It’s late at night in London, and we are here …
Do you know why you’re here? For oh so many years, I had no idea. Without orgasm, without my erotic nature – I was a wilted flower, a saltless saltine, the crankiest b*tch in the bitchery. Sensuality is the fuel that empowered my legend to live. But most women fear the erotic so profoundly …
I am here for the virgin, here for the whore. Why are you here? Read More »
Where did you get your heartbreak training? Today, I’m going to tell you a story of where I got mine, and the experience that turned it all on its head (for the better). But before I do, I have a quick update for you: A few weeks ago, I told you to save the …
True confessions: I did not have an easy spring this year. Now, as the self-proclaimed Pleasure Queen, I hold myself to a standard. Not so different than yours, I’m sure. And so, like you, I disapprove of myself heartily when my little row row row my boat does not go so gently down the …
I have always been a huge fan of the holy. Ever since I was a little girl, it was a hobby of mine to explore places of worship, and try to understand where I fit in, what I believed, what it was all about. Holiness made me feel right at home. Like I belonged. …
Back in the day, when I was just figuring out how to spread my School of Womanly Arts wings, I held my very first classes in my living room. These were tiny workshops with a few handfuls of women that I taught out of my brownstone apartment on the Upper West Side, after I tucked …
You know that feeling. You can feel it right now if you choose. It is a sensation that feels very good inside, like you are sunshine; you are the ripple of wind across the water. It feels sacred. It feels sensual. It feels pleasurable. It feels like the best possible truth. It feels like rapture. …
Darling, It’s very nearly July 4th. Which has me thinking about freedom, intense effort, and something I have noticed. There is nothing more erotic than giving your all. Whether it’s to create freedom for yourself, or others. To stand firmly for what’s right. Pulling out all the stops, no holding back, and offering all of …