Darling, I am still drenched, saturated, steeped in the beauty, power, and cell-changing energy that we created in Miami. No kidding, Sisters. It was Nuclear. Fission. That’s what we were doing all weekend. Live alchemy. Which gets amplified in the most astonishing way when we come together as a community to kneel, together, at the...

Darling, When you have a deep desire, what do you do? Are you thrilled to be filled with yearning? Do you enjoy that delicious feeling of wanting? Or do you focus, instead, on the pain of not having what you want? Are you pissed that you don’t have what you want? Do you curse the...

Darling, Is your light on or off? Right now. Take a quick test: Do you feel flush with enthusiasm? Beautiful? Strong? Confident? Good.  Then your light is on. Light is everything. No light, no life.  It’s that simple. Do you notice women’s light? I am sure you do. You can tell right away whether it...

Darling, I have just gotten the single mother break of the century. My daughter has a whole weekend sleepover with a camp friend, in the country.  She gets fresh fall air, changing leaves, and giggling all night with friends, and I have time to ride my horse, catch up with friends, and sip a cup...

Darlings, I don’t know about you, but I cannot remember a more dramatic fall season. Seriously. Hurricanes, elections, war, violence, colliding with unprecedented outpourings of support and activism. It feels like everything old is falling away and being remade into something new and unexpected. At times like this, there is nothing familiar to rest on....

Sister, Think Hurricane Sandy is the only powerhouse female around? I’ve got Kris Carr in the house! And in this week’s Ask Mama, I am flipping the switch and yo’ Mama is asking the Q’s.  I recently had the privilege of interviewing my pal, sister, girlfriend, and compatriot Kris Carr (who is also one of...

Rapture. That place, that space, that time. When everything feels, and is, euphoric. So good, so right. You know your place and space in the world. And you want it to last forever. Because every second is better than the last. Rapture is that sense that not only is everything alright—it is better than alright. ...

This past week has been a little monster, a bitch and a bear. Are you having one of those, too? We just launched two courses here at the Pussy Palace—the brand new Creation Course, and the internationally reaching Virtual Pleasure Boot Camp. And when I start a new course, I like to plunge right in...

Darling, We’re nearly four months away from a Sister Goddess takeover of Miami at the Worldwide Sister Goddess Weekend, November 9-11! I wanted to let you know that we are currently offering an Early Bird savings (available for the first 100 seats) of $100 off the tuition, bringing your total investment down to $299. Please...

There are millions of us out here.  Women who are between lovers, widowed, divorced, or just simply exploring the world of relationship.  Women who are longing for love.  Longing for sex, longing for intimacy. Such beautiful longings. And there are millions of men* out here.  Men who love women, men who love sex, men who...