What if I am just Devastated?

Today I want to talk about the third of our three D’s.
Brace yourself – this is a big one, sisters. 

The mother of all D’s, the root of a woman’s paralysis, and the very reason I created the School of Womanly Arts in the first place – Devastation. (To find out how I got there, see yesterday’s video on Depression.)

When you’re in this place, and fighting to get out, there’s nothing you won’t try.
At least, that was my experience.
From self-destruction to celibacy, you name it, I gave it a shot.

It wasn’t until I became a dedicated student of pleasure, that I was able to heal and move forward from my triple D diagnosis. 

These days, there’s so much to feel.
So much to be hurt over, enraged by, and dismayed about.
And we worry that if we don’t bury our emotions – push them away and out of sight – that they’ll eat us alive.

It’s a constant game of swallow or be swallowed. 

So we do the former to avoid the latter, and cut ourselves off from feeling altogether. 

But there’s a different way, a radical approach.

It starts next week, and I want to tell you all about it. 

Check out this video I created on using pleasure to reverse devastation. All it takes is a little bit of turn-on, and permission to feel deeply. 


If you’re in this space of doubt, depression, devastation – or any of the D’s in-between – I want you to join me tomorrow (Thursday) for a special Q&A about Bootcamp.

I want you to gather all the questions you have about my upcoming course, Virtual Pleasure Bootcamp, and bring them with you to the Q&A. I mean it – anything you’re curious to know! 

I will be walking you through the course highlights and sharing more about each of my eight Womanly Arts as they relate to pleasure, turn-on, and breaking the triple D cycle. 

Let’s talk pleasure, and take on the D’s in sisterhood! 

With so much love and pleasure,

P.S. Already know you want IN for VPBC? Simply click HERE to reserve your spot.

P.S. If you know a woman who could use a boost, use some connection to her feminine, please share this blog with her, or have her join our mailing list (scroll down the page till you see a heading that says “Put Yourself On the List”). There’s lots of fun happening on our Instagram and Facebook accounts, too!!

Regena is a feminist icon, a teacher, a speaker, a mother, a best-selling author, and creatrix and CEO of The School of Womanly Arts.


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